Matthew 5:27-37
Some Relationship Advice
At Trinity, we commit to reading, opening, and explaining all of Scripture, even when it presents challenging or painful topics. Today’s passage, part of Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 5:21-47), speaks to deeply personal aspects of life—desire, faithfulness, and honesty in relationships.
The Context of Jesus’ Teaching
- Jesus calls his people to a righteousness that surpasses the law (5:20).
- He moves beyond external actions to the deeper heart issues that shape relationships.
- His teaching follows a pattern: “You have heard… but I say to you”—correcting misinterpretations of the law and revealing God’s true intent.
Jesus on Desire (Matthew 5:27-30)
- The cultural assumption was that avoiding adultery was enough, but Jesus goes deeper, warning against lustful intent.
- Lust isn’t just about physical actions; it begins in the mind and devalues others, reducing them to objects.
- Jesus uses strong imagery (pluck out your eye, cut off your hand) to emphasize the need for radical steps to fight sinful desire.
- Instead of lust, Jesus calls for a vision of relationships marked by mutual honor, respect, and love under God.
Jesus on Divorce (Matthew 5:31-32)
- In Jesus’ time, divorce was often easy and unfairly dismissed women.
- He points back to God’s original design for marriage—lifelong faithfulness and commitment.
- While God allowed divorce, it was never meant to be taken lightly or used selfishly.
- Jesus highlights the harm done to those abandoned in divorce and calls for faithfulness in marriage.
- Note: The focus on the woman as the victim in 5:33 in the NIV2011 translation captures the idea (Passive Voice).
Jesus on Honesty (Matthew 5:33-37)
- In his day, people swore by things other than God to avoid being held accountable.
- Jesus teaches that honesty should be so ingrained in his people that yes means yes, and no means no.
- Truthfulness builds trust, integrity, and strong relationships.
Jesus’ Call to a Better Vision
Instead of selfishness, objectification, or manipulation, Jesus calls us to relationships built on love, faithfulness, and integrity.
He offers not just rules but a transformed heart that leads to flourishing relationships under God’s good design.
This teaching challenges but also encourages—pointing us to Jesus, whose love, wisdom, and grace empower us to live as his people.
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